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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Money. Our HHI is 175k. Not poor by any means, but we’re stretched, living hand to mouth. (we made a series of bad financial choices over the last several years). I make 3x what DH does, and feel tremendous pressure. I am also a very engaged mom to 2 little kids under 6.

One of our kids has significant special needs and our entire life has been consumed by figuring out how to help them.

We have no local help, no real support network, our live are pretty isolated. Add to that the stress of the aforementioned and we have zero sex life.

We both wonder out loud if we would be happier if we chose different life partners. It sucks. [/quote]

We have a special needs kid and no sex life and are now wondering out loud if we should just divorce so we can each at least have alternating weekends for a chance to have a love and sex life again.  I make a lot of money, wife stays home.  It may not just be about the money.  Wishing you well[/quote]

PP here. Same to you - I wish you and your family well.
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I have sometimes thought to myself (not out loud. Goodness, that's not going to help your relationship!) how nice it would be to be divorced and have some weekends to myself. However, to go that route for such a reason just seems stupid. Just have a conversation with your spouse, and have you each take a Saturday to yourselves. Or get a sitter more often so you can go away for more weekends (much cheaper than divorce)[/quote]

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