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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For me, sex. For her, she says her wants come last and she bears the mental load of the kids. She is SAHM and it works until it doesn't. [/quote] I will say that being a SAHM is weird. I feel sometimes like I am made of glass. Or like I am this invisible force in the lives of my family instead of a person in my own right. No one ever notices most of what I do unless it isn’t done. And sometimes, at every age, kids get involved in their own things and completely ignore you. Sometimes I start to feel like I don’t really exist. [/quote] Mothers are wallpaper. You don't even notice they are there. It's true. And what you do goes completely unrecognized until something goes wrong. But ... I will say having a stable healthy present parent helps grow healthy secure kids. So moms (or any primary caregiver) take care of yourself. You DO exist. You ARE important. An b your children do love you. Now go give YOUR mom a hug if you can.[/quote]
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