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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I dont want to act crazy, I'm uninterested in revenge. I'm interested in advice from BTDT women who have had to deal with this. The first time she shows up at a soccer game, what do I do? When she shows up to pick the kids up, what do I say? Just pretend I have no idea who she is? Like I dont remember her? I just dont know how to handle this next phase with class and grace. [/quote] At soccer sit on your own with your family, or new partner. Ignore, you're only there for your kids. Why would she be picking up your kids? Or do you mean if she accompanies your ex? You could do neutral pick-up and drop-offs, some do that. We didn't allow exes inside our home. Tell the kids to have fun and out the door they go. I wouldn't acknowledge her ever OP. Keep doing what you're doing, text dad only about the kids. On your time plans fun trips and completely move on. [/quote]
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