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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I posed a while back -- I am not convinced penetration has occurred.  But, his behavior is inappropriate.

There is a lot of sexual abuse that is not rape.

Unwanted kissing (particularly on the mouth)
Unwanted touching (particularly in the bathing-suit areas)
Threatening (I will do something to you)
etc.

OP says touching....there is touching to annoy people -- kids are good at that.  Like on the back or arm.

And lying on top is wrestling.  Siblings sometime wrestle.

But, clearly she is saying no -- she as a right to say no.  He is not respecting that.

So to me the questions on actions are:  
1) is behavior sexual, or is it adults sexualizing children playing?  (I do not know)
2) Is he touching her in her privates?
3) Is he getting off sexually on it?

Frankly a 13 yo sharing a room with a 10 yo of the opposite sex is a bad situation and can lead to a lot of sexual frustration.

(When I was a young teen, I did not really understand the privacy issues with masturbation).[/quote]
Or more to the point, a sexually abusive boy in a private room with his victim all night, every night - can easily lead to rape. His parents are ok with his forcible kissing her. 
I hope the victim has relatives or other caring adults who can protect her from her monster brother.[/quote]
I said this because I think the mother is enmeshed with her boy, and can’t be helped until she admits to her toxic relationship with him. It’s surprisingly common. You hear about it all the time from daughters-in-law.[/quote]

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