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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm the one that is admiring you for not dragging the kids earlier. 
I'm  curious why you're on here asking for a FWB and not testing the waters on sites like bumble?  Being transparent goes far on these sites once you start communicating.[/quote]

OP here: I asked if what I want is possible. I am not asking for a FWB here or going on sites. I am not divorced yet. When I am, I will look into those options.[/quote]

It is very  possible you will find numerous men who will SAY they won't see other women when you are unavailable.

But these very same men who would agree to this in the first place, will also be the same kind of men who would lie about it to get you in the sack.

You don't want to  make a commitment, you say there is no chance of a commitment in the future.

No rational man has any reason whatsoever to agree to see you when it's convenient for you, and deny himself at least the option of seeing other women when you're unavailable.

If you don't want to have a relationship with the guy, then you don't get to ask for him to be exclusive, but if you do, and you're naive enough to believe guys who tell you they agree to it, you deserve exactly what you end up with--the bottom of the barrel--players.[/quote]

I find it interesting that you feel so passionately about this.  If you are not a divorced person in the FWB market, what the actual hell do you know about it?  The rest of the posters in this thread indicate 1) yes, I've done this or 2) I'd love to do this.  So what is  your actual real life experience that makes you so certain you are right about what "quality" men will or will not do?[/quote]

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