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[quote=Anonymous]The husband has so much more time and lacks the stress of a commute; it’s not unreasonable for him to pick up the slack. I have similar scenario, only I come home to dinner in the oven, homework done, music practiced, chores complete. And she’s being undermined – she cooks dinner and they are allowed to eat out instead. I don't blame her at all. Whether the dad has ADHD or asperger’s or just different values, it doesn’t matter. If she has expressed her disappointment clearly and he doesn’t change anything, they are not compatible. If she does get a new job, she is the one who is compromising, and it doesn't guarantee things will change. Divorce may be the realistic option. As for the kids, I don’t think they are especially terrible, 11-14 year olds are by nature selfish and lazy. Very few don’t need constant guidance. Good luck OP. [/quote]
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