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[quote=Anonymous]You aren't allowed to have an opinion on how your husband is managing (or not) the household since you've seemingly abdicated full responsibility of parenting your children.

Here's what you should do: dial it back at work or adjust your schedule. Leave at 6am so you can get home earlier. Or just come home early to actually interact with your kids and tackle another hour or so after they go to bed.

I have four kids, a demanding job and a wicked commute (sometimes 2 hours each way), but I haven't punted everything to my husband (who has a more flexible job and easier commute). We've set boundaries and established routines (despite 4 kids playing multiple sports/activities). We've also taught them to be independent and proactive. Our kids are not spoiled.

Why aren't your kids doing the laundry? Why aren't they cooking? My 10 year old knows how to make eggs, French toast, quesadillas, noodles, etc. And anyone who can read knows how to microwave a meal.

This is a good wake-up call for you and your husband. You need to regain control of your home, establish rules, and equip your kids to be self-sufficient. College is too far off for your oldest--think about the basic life skills she will need.

And if you desert your husband and kids, then you suck. Truly. [/quote]

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