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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]If you truly cannot think of a way to be a social person in the world/your office without making sexual or appearance-related comments to or about your colleagues, I don't know what to tell you. It's really not that difficult.[/quote]
So let's be very clear: Your true and honest advice to men is that they should never make any "appearance-related comments" to anyone in the world/office?  I assume you'd exclude my wife and daughters from that broad rule, but would you exclude anyone else?

Please don't dodge the question again by calling me "obtuse" or otherwise ducking.  Please answer the question clearly: Are you saying that men should simply never offer any comment  - no matter how innocuous and innocent they might consider it - to any other person?

You say "It's really not that difficult," but I'm wondering if you truly are suggesting all men follow such a broad guideline.  Interested to hear if you'll stand by what you wrote or not.[/quote]

Yes, I think it's a good rule of thumb not to comment on your colleague's appearance unless you are absolutely certain they won't mind.  How hard is that?  There's a huge range of other small talk you can make.  And if you're not telling Fred that his mustache looks great, you should not be telling Frieda that you like her haircut.  Commenting on appearance is something between intimates, not coworkers.  [/quote]

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