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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP. I got caught up in the evening routine, so apologies for the delay. To answer questions:

1. We shop at Aldi. They have one of those scanner gun things so you can just scan all the items in your cart, pay, and then go over to the counters to bag your groceries. So you don’t unload your cart, and there isn’t the bag station/scale thing like at a Safeway.

2. He is 55. I am 47. So we are not having kids together.

3. I do have kids in the house. My kids have met him, but we’re not really “blended”, and I don’t plan to get married until my kids are much older (if at all). So I’m not worried about him teaching them bad things.

4. He’s a fed. I’m not with him for his money. Again, he shops at Aldi.

5. I have only witnessed him doing this once. And I asked once we got to the car, and he admitted to doing it frequently. I told him that was really dishonest and he laughed and to me I was too much of a rule follower. This was over the weekend, and it’s been lurking around in my brain ever since. I started this post as a gut check that I wasn’t being too much of a goody two-shoes.

6. But I think everyone is right, and this is probably indicative of an attitude that enables even more shady behavior. And it’s just weird. Like a teenager stealing nail polish at the dollar store. It’s about risk taking, which a 50-something man should have outgrown long ago.[/quote]

What in the hell are you doing justifying that no kids are involved? Do you think this makes it okay?  Not something anyone outgrows.  Normal people (normal to me) don't routinely shoplift groceries.  Period.[/quote]

He is a fed and he also steals?  You have got to be kidding me.  Does he have access to taxpayer $$ or accounting, financials in his taxpayer funded job?

Also, the fact he said you are too much of a rule follower and he is also a fed makes me question what his judgment is like at work.

I hope he gets arrested and looses his job and pension.  People are ridiculous.  [/quote]

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