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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't mind paying for my own meal if the date sucked and I have no plans to see a guy ever again. I'm not sure I would go on a second date with a man who made me pay for my own meal though.  [/quote]

I agree with this. The less I like a guy, the more likely I am to pay for myself. If I don't plan to see him again, I'll insist harder on paying my part. [/quote]

Yup, if I'm insisting on paying, it's because I don't like you. if you're letting me, the feeling is probably mutual.

Sounds like this girl did like you but was offended when she realized you didn't like her back. [/quote]

I think your thinking is a little confused.

When you say "like" the guy, and therefore, you will "let him" pay for you, what you really mean is that you perceive the particular guy as a person you think you can take advantage of longer term than a single date; and therefore, "letting him pay" is your way of "testing" whether he is actually dumb enough to let you do that.  If he isn't dumb enough to let you take financial advantage of him on the very first date, then what's the point of continuing?  There's always a more willing sucker out there for you to plunder.[/quote]

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