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[quote=Agar][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]to 15:40 - you have no idea what you're talking about. This is a quick little DCUM thread that can't begin to get to the bottom of the issues. [/quote]

True, I have no idea what the finer details are, but the basic premise that if you don't tell your partner what you need you can't expect them to give it to you is indisputable.  Now, if the reason a woman doesn't tell her husband he doesn't make her cum is because he'll respond by beating the crap out of her, for example, then complaining about the lack of O is like complaining about the food when you're on death row.  [/quote]

One of the PPs here. We've definitely talked about our sex life and how it things aren't all that much fun for me. Thing is, he's just really bad in the sack and has a small penis. His efforts wind up with me being pawed about, with not much sensitivity. I love him to pieces - this is the one glaring hole in our marriage, so I live with it.
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So just a suggestion. Next time you are rolling around, suggest trying something new. Tell him he get to be in charge and teach you everything he wants done. The hope is, the time after, he will let you be in charge. Given that good sex for a woman is so often driven by mental state, you have built a wall where your mind is no longer open to the possibility of being turned on by him. In order to give your satisfaction a chance, you need to mix things up and open your mind (and hopefully his). If you react to things you enjoy, he should find himself getting turned on by that. Hope it helps.[/quote]

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