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I'm not a sociopath. That's ridiculous. I'm not a believer in lifelong monogamy. I'm allowed to have a different idea of what's right and wrong. You don't have to agree to make it okay. [/quote]

Sure you are. You exhibit a whole lot of the signs, including the idea that right or wrong is a nebulous concept that can be decided by you. (Disregard for societal norms.)

You seek your own pleasure with total disregard to the effect on others and have no empathy for your victims.

You are a sociopath.[/quote]

I choose to have an adult relationship that does not harm anyone. A lot of other adults make the same choice.

Right and wrong is based on harm to others, IMO. [/quote]

I haven't read all of the responses, but of course you are not going to admit that you are doing something wrong.  It's very hard to admit that you have so fundamentally wronged someone.

Let me put it this way, [b]if you truly believed that this was ok, you'd have no problem with his wife knowing.[/b] You are lying and deceiving another person and therefore taking her choice to choose.  You don't have to believe in monogamy, but do you believe in honesty?[/quote]

OP here, and the person who is claiming not to be a sociopath is not me.  I may be a sociopath.  As far as his wife knowing, it is okay with me. I'm being secretive because he doesn't want anyone to know.  I don't care if anyone knows.[/quote]

So you are being complicit in the act of deception.  Stop making excuses for yourself.  [/quote]

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