Reply to Am I wrong for having an affair with a married man?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Am I wrong for having an affair with a married man?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

I'm not a sociopath. That's ridiculous. I'm not a believer in lifelong monogamy. I'm allowed to have a different idea of what's right and wrong. You don't have to agree to make it okay. [/quote]

I don't know if you're a sociopath or not, but I will say I don't share your logic at all.

I'm the one who was propositioned by a priest in training. I'm not Catholic. I'm not Christian. Hell, I'm atheist.  And I also don't think lifelong monogamy is best for everyone, and I'd sure as heck not advocate for celibacy or abstinence, especially not for a job.  I take issue with many Catholic dogma.

And yet I was pissed as hell that this guy thought I'd be okay with engaging him in a lie.  I could care less what he did with his sex life, but I did care that he wanted to live a double life, lie about it to basically everyone (but me and himself), and rather than confronting reality, asked me to pursue a rather intimate deception with him.  That alone made him a complete asshole, in my estimation.  He got an earful, I'll tell you that.  And in that case, there was no spouse to hurt--just a night-and-day contrast between who he projected himself to be and who he was.

Pathetic little weasel.  Your dud-dude, too.  Way to help this person you care about live down to his lowest potential.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics