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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can't you have a conversation with him about your sex life without insulting him like you fear?  So, in therapy or just together without a therapist, you could talk about how you really want X kind of sex without putting down the sex he likes to have.  Perhaps you guys could compromise and do it his way some time and your way other times?

For example, and sorry if this is really more explicit than this forum should be dealing with, my husband is really into a certain kind of oral sex that doesn't float my boat.  Because I know he's into it, I do it and pretend that it's great at least a couple of times a month.  Other times, we do things the way I really want them (I have no clue if he doesn't like it that way - he acts like it's great too, but maybe he just wants to make me happy).  Anyway, it's variety and I make sure he gets what he really wants, even though it's not all of the time.

Does that make sense?  Maybe talk to him about variety being the spice of life.  If you could get the sex you wanted at least occasionally, maybe that could kickstart things.

[b]But, bottom line, what is most important to you?  Hot sex and chemistry with someone else or a solid, loving family that might be without passion.[/b]  [/quote]

OP here. This is true. I think I will try this. It's really hard though.[/quote]

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