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[quote=Anonymous]Most of the women I know, myself included, did not date alpha guys in their 20's. All of my friends do not like guys who are alphas. (well except for one, but she is now in her 50's and never married)

In our early 20's we dated guys who treated us like shit. They weren't alphas, just horribly mismatched and they didn't have the balls to break up with us, so they treated us badly. We thought we had to "work hard" at a relationship, so we thought it was normal, plus we loved them, so we stayed.

Then in our late 20's, we dated really nice guys that were just wrong for us. Nothing horrible about the relationship, just that we were incompatible in small ways (that become larger with time). We wanted to marry them. And we thought we had to "work hard" at relationships, so we held on too long. It's hard to know when to let go of a nothing wrong, just not right relationship.

Then by our early 30's, we had a better idea of who we were and what we needed. So we were pickier. But guys seemed more skidish and it was harder to start a relationship. And if you were in one from your 20's, the guy was promising you that he wanted to get married, but just dragged his feet.

Then by our mid-30's, some got desperate. So if they found a nice guy that they were semi-compatible with, they got married. But it goes back to the problem we had in our late 20's--just because there isn't anything majorly wrong, doesn't mean you are right for each other. (lots of very unhappy married people in this group).

But some were smart and just kept dating until we found someone that we were compatible with on all levels. Someone who was right for us. But that led to lots of fertility issues and $$$. But many very happy married people in this group.

Not one woman I know put off marriage. All of us would have gladly been married in our mid-late 20's if we had found the right guy. [/quote]

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