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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm absolutely floored by the number of people who think being fat is a choice.  [b]News flash no one wants to be fat and feel miserable about themselves.

Sure you could start starving yourself, which is exactly what people mean when they say eat less.  [/b]Then you are setting yourself up for an eating disorder or some other type of disordered eating.  Is that what you want your kids to see?

I worked so hard at becoming happy with my body after having 2 kids.  Nothing is the same as it was when we married 8 years ago.  I really hope your confidence improves OP because I want you to realize you are worthy of love.   And when you make that realization I hope you give your DH a swift kick in the balls and leave him in the dust for treating you this way.

PP who said this would turn into a thread about low calorie meals and exercise was right.  PPs, this is not about weight and if you think it is you are a dumbass.[/quote]

Newsflash: Noone is suggesting starving oneself but the reality is that most people who are overweight/obese eat way too much. You can argue otherwise till the cows come home but that is the truth. Compound overeating with little or no exercise and the result is the obesity epidemic we have today.

Part of overcoming any problem - especially one that has to do with addiction - is recognizing and accepting that there is a problem and then wanting to do something about it. Just because some people have a metabolism that allows them to eat a lot does not excuse those with a normal metabolism that requires moderation and exercise to keep one's weight under control. And yes, metabolism often slows down as one gets older. Such is life.[/quote]

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