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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why shouldn't she come in and hang out with her kids? Op- you shouldn't have married someone with kids if this is how you were going to act. You are in a co-parenting situation which means both places the kids live should be open to both parents. As long as she's not going through your personal stuff what do you care?  You're really expecting these kids' mother to wait outside?[/quote]

Um no. There is a custody schedule and kids typically spend time with dad at dad's house and with mom at mom's house. The kids go back and forth not the parents. This is the usual scenario - of course it is not always like this. But visitation is outlined in divorce agreements so unless the agreement states otherwise the OP has reasonable expectations about privacy. 
I don't want my ex in the house (divorced for many years) but sometimes the kids want to show him something or he and i have a quick chat in the doorway - this is normal and unavoidable. Other than that no he is not to be in the house and the kids understand this. They have managed to survive :)
On the other hand my ex's new wife can come over anytime! Because she is not intrusive or rude and she does not make me feel uncomfortable or intimidated in my own home. Also I didn't go through a painful divorce with her. Well ... The point is BOUNDARIES people!!![/quote]

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