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[quote=Anonymous]OP- I think you are spending a lot of energy wondering why DH's family is full of awful human beings. You know the answer. They are dysfunctional and emotionally manipulative/abusive. It's not uncommon for families like that to have some kind of scapegoat, ie DH. I think that you are best off doing what you can to support your husband's emotional health. If he is not ready to cut ties then at least mitigate the toxic interactions by eating in advance, bringing dessert and playing dumb to any of their mind games. you can try to arm chair diagnose and justify all you want but the reality is their behavior is socially unacceptable and they are unwilling to change it. They are not going to change. This is a house full of velociprators (see here for the joke http://captainawkward.com/2012/09/17/353-354-bathrooms-butts-and-boundaries/#comment-27246[/quote]
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