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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - and while I do blame my DH, I also blame her.  I mean, what kind of woman pursues a married man like that?  [/quote]

I understand this feeling OP, but it doesn't come from a rationale place. When posters here keep mentioning you are in denial this post makes that glaringly obvious. Like I said, I understand women like this are damaged and who the hell do they think they are? but in the end it ALL comes down to you DH and not her. I absolutely hate it when the Other Women come onto threads like these, defending their actions saying "we didn't take vows, he did"- it doesn't make it okay but there is truth in it- SHE owes you nothing, your husband does... anything else is just an excuse to forgive him (which I also understand why you want to, when I was cheated on a wasted almost a year believing his bullshit apologies, half-truths, and platitudes.)

Please OP, it is hard for you to see the forrest through the trees here because you are so entrenched- but don't be so easily swayed it will hurt even more knowing you let it drag on...[/quote]

So the OW has low integrity, no sense of decency, is a first class bitch on wheels, blah, blah, blah.  So what?  The problem is that your HUSBAND has been messing around with that.  And your HUSBAND has brought that into YOUR life.

It's like being mad at a bottle of whiskey for making your husband barfing drunk....[/quote]

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