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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Everytime we went anywhere with the kids I paid for everyone, including him because he said he shouldn't have to pay to go to an amusement park or a kid related vacation since it is not something he wants to do and always made me feel like he was doing me a favor by coming with us[/quote]

OP, the issue that everyone is trying to point to in your relationship is not about money. Money is the vehicle through which he belittles you and your family, uses you, and makes you question yourself. Money is the way in which he inflicts damage and control and psychological abuse. There is no percentage of contribution that makes the attitude you noted above--that he is doing you and your family a favor by spending time with you---okay. He soudns very sick, or at least incredibly selfish and emotionally manipulative.

I am glad you have gotten out. Now, block his calls and emails (so they are automatically deleted and you are not tempted to engage) and move on. cut off contact, since he is the type to try to guilt/manipulate you into returning. ANd then, Find a renter! [/quote]

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