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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]..........[b]I need X and Y and Z" where X, Y and Z are things like "pay your fair share of household expenses" and "set a wedding date" and whatever else is important to you. Until he is willing to do those things, I see no reason to have him as part of your life.[/b][/quote]

This is TERRIBLE advice.

How many times have we read posts about women complaining about the men they married saying something like: "I knew he had a problem with ...... but I thought he'd change" or "I knew he had a problem with ....... but it has gotten worse".

This guy is damaged goods. Something in his past has caused him to have a distorted view about money and relationships when it comes to money. I am the one who posted that he is not responsible for the support of your children - that is your responsibility and that of their father.

But when he takes the view that the cost of a visit to an amusement park should be borne entirely by you because he is merely accompanying you for the sake of the children, it is petty and mean-spirited. It is something deep within his psyche that causes him to react that way to money. It will not change no matter what you agree with him as the ground rules.[/quote]

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