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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]18:58, are you saying that OP has no responsibility in tbis situation?  She was having an affair witb a much older married man.  There iz equal blame and responsibility.  She chose to have a child even thoughhe made it perfectlly clear that he wanted nothing to do with the child.  She has signed a confidentiality agreement.  If OP has even the IQ in mid double digits, which I doubt, then she had legal counsel. 
She made her bed and now she doesn't find it comfortable. Tough.  He owes nothing to her or her unfortunate child.[/quote]

Look, I am pro choice.  But I am also anti abortion.  I think all women have to make the decision for themselves and not have it imposed on them by someone else.  But, it is not something I would do.  No matter what the circumstances of conception, I actually respect and admire a woman who keeps a pregnancy despite all the self-serving reasons why she might want to abort instead.  And to KEEP that child herself instead of washing her hands of it, putting the baby up for adoption?

We should be congratulating OP for taking the difficult path, not smearing her for accepting the consequences of her actions.  The father must also accept the consequences of his choice to have sex outside of marriage.  Including that a confidentiality agreement might not be enough to hide his sins.  [/quote]

Thank you for this. - OP[/quote]

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