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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When my brother got divorced, he needed to set up a whole rental house and “house stuff” is not his thing at all. Our family helped a lot - it is a lot of work and takes a certain level of knowledge and skill. You have to make 1003 decisions. But he very much wanted the kid spaces especially to be set up for them to be comfortable and feel at home and he knew he needed to ask for help.

It’s not just a money thing. An expensive dresser that is the wrong size is much worse than an ikea one that fits. Hanging pictures, painting, the right size rug - all that stuff is not intuitive to everyone. Having extra mattress pads. Hooks in the right places. The kind of towels and shampoo the kids are used to. All that sort of thing. [/quote]

If you notice op kept all the stuff and furniture vs splitting it. [/quote]

And? If you notice he has left and purchased a brand new house with multiple empty rooms. we don’t have any of the details to make judgements about what is a fair split but we do know the court will.[/quote]

Yes, and he should have taken half the furniture.  Or, maybe because OP refused, he didn't take anything and is waiting for the court to decide.  She could let them take stuff from her house and replace it.[/quote]

Or he abandoned his family and children to set up a miltiroom house with his AP. He can buy furniture [/quote]

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