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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP started this thread as a decent person.... after listening to DCUM bitter women, OP will leave as a different person. [/quote] She started this thread as a decent person who was about to be divorced and homeless...[/quote] She could always, you know, honor her vows and not abandon her husband.[/quote] Back to this question: OP, why are you leaving this guy? You seem to like him. [/quote] OP here. I respect him as an honest person and a devoted father, but I am leaving because of ongoing emotional abuse/anger issues. Someone else asked if I cheated: No, I never did. [b]But I'm acutely aware that I am now more than halfway through my life, and I'd like to try and find happiness with someone else while I'm still reasonably attractive and fit.[/quote][/b] This is a horrible reason to divorce. It is very unlikely you will find a new partner. (I am divorced but it was a horrible marriage from day 1 and I divorced because being alone FOREVER was better than staying married...that is the only scenario that should be considered. Not a pipedream that you will find someone else.)[/quote] You just glossed over the abuse? Jesus Christ. Talk about bad advice. [/quote] She said anger and control issues...that is not necessarily abuse. I had extreme emotional and financial abuse and postdivorce, it still would have been better to stay married. She should NOT divorce with another partner in mind. That is sheer stupidity.[/quote] No, she said emotional ABUSE and anger issues. Stop telling women to stay with abusive men. Even if there is no one else out there, she will be better off NOT BEING ABUSED. [/quote]
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