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For Pete's sake OP, if  you are willing to do things with her that she enjoys, all I am saying is make some effort.  Hire a babysitter and make some plans  I feel like a broken record but really, go read 12:02 again.  They were so right.  She wants to know that you are still interested in her in many ways beyond sex.  Pregnancy, childbirth and becoming a mother throws so many of us for a loop.  You are hormonal, sleep-deprived, and your whole sense of yourself - physically and otherwise - is completely rocked.  Tell her that you miss her and that you want to spend time together.  You can't expect that planning one date will mean she's raring to go but if you make an honest, genuine effort to bridge the gap and see things from her point of view, you will begin to rebuild the closeness necessary for wanting sex.  Trust me - I could be your wife.  I actually kind of feel like I'm rehashing old arguments with my DH.  [/quote]

I'm not the OP, but as a woman I just want to say, I resent the fact that you are a loud voice representing women.  You are the nagging, ME, ME, ME voice that make men resent women.  Ugh!  So needy.   It's exahusting just to read your posts, I can't even imagine what it's like to be a husband to one of you.  Always having to make you feel special everytime you want to have sex.  Always having to "spend time together" - guess what, your married, you DO spend time together.  All the time.

Sometimes as a wife, you have to make your husband feel good.  How many times do you do that?  How many times have YOU done something for him?  All I see from your posts are, what are you doing for her?  How do you help her?  WIFE!  MOTHER! WOMEN!  Isn't marriage a partnership?  Isn't it about give and take?  All I see from you is take and no give.  When was the last time you really did something for your husband.

Typical of the needy wife.  All about the "what have you done for me lately" but nothing about the give and take that truely defines how to make a successful marriage work.

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Did you miss the part where I mentioned all of the times I had planned evenings out for us and arranged babysitting?  Often to do things I expressly know DH enjoys?  Or is making my husband feel special just about giving him regular BJ's in your esteemed opinion?

You don't know shit about me, bitch, and you are one to point fingers at me about being THAT type of woman.

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