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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ladies, life is waaay too short for all of this. [/quote]

This.  I'm 38.  I can't imagine looking at another women and going "ugh, she's wearing a Love Bracelet.  Clearly she's a materialistic lemming and I should immediately judge her and decide she's not worth getting to know based off what she's wearing.  ".
It's so juvenile.  I'm boring.  I barely wear jewelry and my hair is usually in a messy bun or pony.  My best friend never leaves the house without a full face of makeup. Yet she's the kindest and most generous person I've ever met.  It just seems SO weird to me that grown ass women are making these snap judgements based off clothes and accessories.  [/quote]

Most people aren't making those judgments though. Even on this thread, people aren't saying they assume women who dress this way are bad people.

People are saying they judge the style. They are saying they see the woman in the Cartier bracelet and think "ugh there's that Cartier bracelet again -- I'm so tired of seeing it and I don't understand why anyone wastes their money on it." Yes there is some implied judgment of the woman there but it's not writing her off entirely. It's just having a certain association with these items.

And everyone does that. Yes, even you. If you saw a woman wearing ripped black tights and goth makeup and piercings, you wouldn't draw some conclusions about her as a person? And I'm sure there are certain styles you just don't care for and think look dumb or tacky or boring. Some people hate tattoos. Some people freak out about visible panty lines or bra straps. Some people hate message tees that or visible logos. And some people roll their eyes at love bracelets and Neverfulls.

If no one ever judged anyone for their clothes or style, we'd all just wear the same thing and the fashion industry would not exist.[/quote]

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