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Reply to "Wife dies and husband adopts their 1 year old out to the aunt."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stories like this are radicalizing to me. The fact that a man can still do this, in this day and age, and not just be shunned by society, is grotesque. I know of a woman who bailed on her kids, left them with their (wonderful) father to go "live her own life" and she was rightly shunned by the whole community, including her parents and siblings and her oldest friends. That's misogyny at work right there. As long as men are allowed to just abandon their children when it suits them, it's a problem for society. And it's been like this forever. And our president elect has even done this! (With Tiffany). [/quote] So if someone- mother or father- knows they're not likely to a good parent, you'd rather they keep their child to avoid social ostracization than find a better home for their child?[/quote] If we were talking about people with severe mental illness or physical disabilities, sure. People who have kids and then simply decide they don't like being a parent should be held accountable for that. We want to discourage people from having kids they don't want to care for. A true inability to care for children is a different situation.[/quote] There are some serious forced-birther vibes going on here. You should probably move to a red state.[/quote] The opposite actually-- if you don't want to be a parent, don't have kids and I for sure want you to have access to abortion. Having an unwanted child is an act of cruelty. I think lack of abortion access leads to child neglect and abandonment.[/quote] I agree. Very cruel what that widower did. [/quote]
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