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Reply to "Wife dies and husband adopts their 1 year old out to the aunt."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For all you adoptive parents. Yes you are real parents and love your children and your children still love you. I'm sure you gave them Their bio parents most likely had great reasons for not parenting. However, none of that changes that your child may still feel abandoned or some kind of loss related to their bio parents. This is a very real thing.[/quote] I’m an adoptive parent and I agree with you that kids who were adopted often have feelings of loss and abandonment. However, this is not because they were adopted, this is because their bio parents were unable or unwilling to parent them. My guess is that if this man had decided not to do the adoption, but still had the same issues that led him to wanting the adoption in the first place, he would have ended up being a somewhat absent (even if physically present) father, which leads to the same feelings of loss and abandonment. [/quote]
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