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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a wife that was cheated on . I contacted the AP’s husband and it went very badly . Like others have posted , he was VERY angry and owned a gun . He figured out our address and showed up at our house and threatened my husband when he was with the kids . The AP (his wife) showed up and it was so dramatic . All the neighbors came out and my kids were so scared and I had to call the cops . Luckily nothing violent happened but you just don’t know who is going to lose it over some information . We are divorced now , my kids are suffering and still ask me about this traumatic event that happened . I wish I never said anything and just divorced him and moved on . [/quote]

This story sounds fake.

Listen: it’s information. The information is okay to share in a dispassionate way. Id call him at work, personally. [/quote]

DP and this is re: the story about the AP's husband who turned up to threaten that poster's husband (the cheater). I am very firmly in the "tell the spouse" camp and want to note that. But I disagree that the story sounds fake. Why? Similar incident happened to someone I used to know. Only it was the cheated-on wife who ended up nearly killing someone.

Her DH cheated; the betrayed wife did NOT tell the AP's DH but somehow the AP's DH found out and showed up at this couple's home, banging on the door and calling out the cheater DH to come outside and fight him, and the idiot cheater DH actually went outside swinging. The betrayed husband wasn't armed, but my "friend" was--she had a gun, brought it outside to defend her idiot cheater DH, and she ended up shooting the other guy in the leg. She was freaking lucky she didn't hit a vein and make him bleed out in their yard. It was such a clusterf**k. I'm not 100 percent sure how she evaded going to jail but word was that the guy she shot was so embarrassed he wouldn't press charges. plus her daddy was a huge deal in her small hometown, so....She did end up having to pay the guy a substantial sum of money later; I don't know if that was a civil suit or under the table, for his medical expenses.

I am relating that only to say, the PP's story does not sound fake to me at all. But I still believe in telling the other spouse because this kind of thing is surely rare. I'd note that the idiocy here was with the betrayed wife thinking she should defend her cheater DH and her stupidly bringing a gun to a fistfight rather than calling the cops immediately. Fortunately, no kids to traumatize with all this adult nonsense. [/quote]

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