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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]no our kids do not know but they know that mom goes out with friends to do things because dad is a homebody and doesn't like to go out[/quote]

Open only for you or also DH? [/quote]

Mutually open, he just doesn't date or have interest in dating people.  He isn't going to give any woman he meets the quality time and the kind of connection most women will want.  Same problem we had that got us here to begin with.  When we have talked about how things are going he has shared that he has hooked up with people when out of town at college reunions or when on travel.  His happy place is just working, taking care of his kids, getting some low effort sex and being left alone otherwise.  I've opted out of being his low effort easy access orfice and am enjoying having companionship and conversation and others things that I need while dating and being seen as a whole interesting fun human to hang out with again.  I've actually tried to help give him advice to help him out on the dating scene but women and relationships are clearly not a priority to him beyond fulfilling a functional physical need periodically.

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Thanks PO. How do you meet the guys you date? How do you explain your situation to them? Are they good with it?[/quote]

Have you met men? LOL
The number of men who are willing to be ENM, at least initially, is very high.

Guys just want to get in there.

DP[/quote]

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