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[quote=Anonymous]I met my DH when we were 20. We were super in love with each other, but plot twist: he moved to another college and we broke up, but kept in touch. Then, he got married at 24. I was stunned. I felt nowhere close to that, but was heartbroken. I got married at 30. It wasn't terrible, but it wasn't right, either. I got divorced at 35. Guess who else was divorced? Now we're married. He says he wishes we were married all along, but I'm not sure. I was really too young then, with issues to work out. I had trauma and was immature for my age. Delayed marriage meant that I got a real career going.and I had lots of experiences with friends in my 20s that are so important to me, I can't imagine not having had them. Basically, I was a different, and better person at 35 than I was in my early 20s. And I don't know that early-20s me could have made marriage work, even with my ideal person. I think I am an outlier though. [/quote]
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