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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with OP. I push my kids. I am also a teacher. Most people are lazy. Most students who do well have parents with high expectations. A few are intrinsically motivated. It is sad when I have brilliant students do the bare minimum. Their parents don't push them, so they don't care. I think it is sad that our culture is now looking at hard work and ambition as things that are bad. When I think of those ideas it is not associated with wealth or title. Why not do the best at what you do? If you make sandwiches for a living, why not be the best sandwich maker? Their is value and beauty in th[/quote] I think the way people penalize a person for wanting to do nothing but enjoy themselves even sadder. What is the point? We are all going to die? Why do I need to pushed into doing all these things I don't want to do when all I want to do is sit around and enjoy the present moment?[/quote] because it is not possible to enjoy the present moment all the time. if you never experience unpleasant things, you cannot enjoy anything either. such is the nature of experience. pleasure only works if there is something not pleasurable to compare it to.[/quote]
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