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[quote=Anonymous]His parents sound clueless and selfish. Don't they know how hard having a baby is in general and on a marriage? Also not clear is why DH didn't ask you what you wanted. Here's a suggestion: Tell DH that you absolutely need to decide who can visit and you can only do that after the baby is here because the decision has to be based on how you are doing. Tell DH that if feeding is going well, and you did not have a C, they can come for a weekend but they may have to stay in a hotel. This is a very important moment in your marriage. You and DH need to work as a team. It's also hard because for the first time neither of you "gets" what the other is going through. DH is not pregnant. DH will not breastfeed. There's an experiential gulf here. A situation like this destroyed my marriage. My ex-husband insisted on in-laws visiting for weeks and I cried and cried and we fought all the time and we never rebounded. Watch it.[/quote]
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