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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reading DCUM makes me want to bow down and kiss my wife's feet. We have sex 1-2 times a week. Touch wood![/quote]

Same. My husband doesn’t feel entitled to my body and thinks it’s disgusting that people think that a spouse not wanting to have sex is a reason to cheat. And we have sex twice a week. Woo hoo! [/quote]

What is a reason to cheat, if not that you can't get enough sex at home (?)[/quote]

Why would interpret my comment as suggesting there is a good reason to cheat at all? [/quote]

So even if a marriage is a good friendship, great for raising kids, good mutual friends, and good for building an estate, you think one should never cheat and just be satisfied with terrible sex?[/quote]

Never cheat, yes. Nobody should ever cheat.

Be satisfied with terrible sex? No. There are sooooo many other options. But most men (sorry don’t take this personally) refuse to work through the situation in any way that requires vulnerability. They just demand, pout, implement bad advice they found online, and then if that doesn’t work, they cheat. And most women often aren’t creative about the situation and see sex as only something a man wants rather than get in touch with their own sexuality (or, yes, even research non monogamous alternatives).

I have read the trauma people experience from being cheated on and the idea that somebody could seriously contemplating putting anybody, much their spouse, through that is wild to me. Women go from feeling like they are on top of the world to having zero self esteem and PTSD. There is no excuse for putting somebody through that, even if you want to go the childish route and claim “but they started it.”[/quote]

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