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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what is the real issue.  You don't want to hear that some women are happier staying home and appreciate having the option.  You don't want to hear it is best for some families.  I'm sorry you have a difficult marriage situation but its up to you to fix it or get out of it.[/quote]

DP. Not OP, but I don't get that from OP at all. Are you sure you aren't just projecting? I am honestly confused by your response. It seems kind of bizarre. I have done both SAHM and WOHM (and student mom, and WAHM), so maybe I am just not as defensive, but I really don't.get your response here.[/quote]

OP here. The poster you are responding to is someone who  a) didn't bother reading the thread just saw SAHM in the title and want to stary mommy war drams b( just a troll.

Either way, it's best to ignore. As I think I have made it very clear that both are valid and fulfilling choices, especially when the woman is the one choosing the path.

My question is related to why is it that it seems to be assumed by men that their wife will be the one to take the career hit to be the SAHP. Especially when she has an established career same as him, and has not given the indication she wants to stay home.  Like  why is it nor presumed daycare or  nanny, or even he will be the one  staying home.

Outside of a few trolls, and people who just want to have mommy wars. I think we have had a good discussion.[/quote]

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