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A cheater I know said AP started using “love” and he would answer “me too”.  He said he would say it to keep the arrangement going.  He wanted to have his cake and eat it too, but never had deep level feelings for AP.  He deeply loved his wife and kids and ended up losing them when wife found out.  Lost an entire life and family for some middle-aged, close to menopause p@ssy and be admittedly says “not that great sex anyways.”  Pathetic sad story and he is miserable now.  Wife, btw, is thriving.  He never thought he would get caught and I think he banked on his wife never leaving him.  His wife was hilarious, attractive, successful and I know they had a wild sex life in their marriage, threesomes, etc pre-kids.[/quote]

EVERYBODY had (... past tense... your verb) a good sex live [u]pre-kids[/u].... what is the point in even making that statement? And how is that relevant to the standard marriage trajectory where she lost interest so he found it elsewhere? Nothing said about this breakup. What are you talking about "losing his kids" are you saying he did not want the standard 50/50 custody that every father is granted? Their marriage ended back when his wife lost interest (before he sought an AP).He lost a room mate, not a wife. Good for him![/quote]

NOT EVERYBODY has a good sex life pre-kids. If kids happen, planned or unplanned, it just makes it worse. In those cases, they should have ended it before kids...but then with kids, they try to "stay for the kids"--people will do this for years and years and sometimes never divorce although it is a crappy marriage. I look that those cheating situations very differently than others. I know people hate it but it is not a black and white issue. No one has any idea what actually goes on in people' s marriages. [/quote]

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