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[quote=Anonymous]I can understand the argument that 24/7 help may be too intrusive. But I can't believe amount of martyrdom here. At their income level, they can more than afford substantial household and childcare help. There are no prizes for martyrdom or suffering more when you don't have to. I would do 20 daytime hrs a week for household help (light cleaning, cooking, groceries, etc). And I would hire a night nurse for 8 hrs a night (10 pm- 6 m or 11 pm-7 am). The night nurse would get up with the baby so that OP and her husband can sleep. The toddler continues going to daycare. I would do this for at least 4 months. [/quote]
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