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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one, especially not adults, like to be guilted and forced into family or social events. 
Invite someone but be totally ok if they come or not. [b]Your choice is to invite them. It is their choice to come or not[/b].[/quote]

do you not see how entirely banal your insight is? is there anyone who believes OP should kidnap her sister and force her to come? why do people feel they must repeated these trite messages.

everybody understands people have choices. this is precisely why we are criticizing the sister. if she didn't have a choice there would be nothing to object to.[/quote]
 
Calling someone a 'jerk' for making a choice that you didn't want them to make doesn't sound like someone who understands that the sister had no obligation to attend this holiday party the  OP wants her to. 
Can OP be disappointed? Sure. But to call names and fuss for 10 pages about the sister and how aweful she is? Nope.[/quote]

There you go again. We GET that the sister was not obligated to attend the holidays. She should have declined like a normal person instead of sending passive aggressive, cold flight itineraries as a way to notify them that her previous RSVP of "I will attend" has now changed.[/quote]

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