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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Based on my coworkers and friends groups, those who are white tend to not have as much family close by as those who are not (again, JUST based on my own social circle/life). That in and of itself is a huge determinant as to the frequency and type of contact.

OP is mad because her sister promised to come for "The Holidays" but then sent an itinerary showing she would be elsewhere for the holidays. OP is mad because sister always does this, lives across country and didn't give enough notice. Nothing we or what the sister says will matter to OP. In her mind Sister is a selfish hateful person and is turning her back on their dad. 
OP fails to highlight sister WAS there for her dad's health scare (we have no idea what that even is). We have no idea what else Sister is dealing with in her own life. [b]We have no idea if Sister has invited parents out to the Westcoast before and they refuse so she feels no need to travel back again. We just don't know.[/b] But the kicker is, neither does OP. She refused to email back asking Sister "Oh, i see you are in Europe over TGiving and Xmas, thought you were coming back here"

Halmark movies aren't real. The white people i know put so much pressure on "The Holidays" being just so, that they will NEVER live up to those standards. Just let people live their own lives. [/quote]

we also don't know if the father worked 3 shifts to pay for the sister's college or bought her first home. there are countless possibilities. we can only discuss the information as provided by OP (a limitation for sure but intrinsic to the format).[/quote]

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