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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I read the first five pages and couldn’t take it anymore. OP your sister is an incredibly selfish asshole. she doesn’t care for your family. It is what it is and you can’t do anything about I. but she sucks as a sister and a daughter. you are right to be angry even livid. this forum is frequented by people with no understanding whatsoever of what family is. they are all about “she has a right” “you cant force it” etc. its ok For children to abandon their parents, for parents to leave money to their dogs, for sisters and brothers to never see each other because omg “ they have the right to” and every man is for himself and his own selfish goals. disgusting.[/quote] This is the prevailing culture in America now. Individualism rules and each little nuclear family lives on its own island with no responsibilities to any other humans. This board in particular is full of those types. I am not white, but I find these attitudes to be most prevalent with white, upper middle class people or those striving to be upper middle class or considered UMC by others. I don't know what is going on inside these white families, but I see this as the breakdown of the American family. My involved, loud, brown family may be messy at times, but the value in the relationships is so high. No, I don't fall into the camp of allow toxic behavior for family, but there is a middle ground that so many on DCUM clearly do not see. I'm sorry OP that you are searching for something with your sister that isn't there. Hopefully if you have children you can create something different for them.[/quote]
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