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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the update, OP. I'm about as pro-choice as you can get, but the situation you have described suggests that this could work. Importantly, you love each other and you both want a baby -- even if the timing is not ideal. All that said, I strongly urge you to draw up an agreement NOW that covers you and your children (current and future). If you carry this baby to term and take some time off, you will take a financial hit. Even if you continue to work full time, the added load of a third kid will set you back in your career. You need to work out a financial arrangement that protects you and the kids in the event the relationship falters. And you need clear "rules of the road" for how all three kids get supported even if you do get married and it all works out. You need an agreement, at least in principle, before you are too far down the road in this pregnancy.[/quote]
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