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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it like every woman even cares about what men want?  That seems to be the major thrust of the replies.[b] [Sure, women spend billions of dollars a year trying to make themselves attractive to men, but they don't care what men want.  :roll:  :roll:  :roll: ][/b]

OK, you guys can dream on.  In the end, women hold the cards.[/quote]

Until the women hit age 30, and then the shoe is on the other foot.

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30? I’m curious as to how old you are. Do you think you’ll still be able to snag hot young women once you’re in middle age? Or maybe you’re already there.

Unless you’re wealthy, they won’t want you.

Sorry. That’s just how it is. [/quote]

Keep telling yourself that.  I'm old, not wealthy at all, and I do fine with women.  Only really young women hold all the cards.[/quote]

And they usually waste those cards on hookups with hawt guys rather than using their cards to find a quality husband and start a family.[/quote]

When will men take responsibility for themselves for anything?

Let's say I buy into this sexism. What is a woman supposed to do? Why do men get to have their cake and eat it too?

If a woman is not young (say, to you probably, over 30) it's all over for her because men want a young, hot woman in her 20s. If she's over 30 and still in good shape and hot, too bad, she won't be fertile for long enough.

If a woman is in her 20s, she has to "play her cards" and "find a quality husband." Okay. But if she hurries up and finds a husband and its the wrong guy, and gets divorced, then she's in the above over-30 category and needs to "start her cat collection." Her fault. 
If she wants to wait until she finds the right person, and it takes her until well until her 30s....same thing.

And let's take the young, hot, 25 year old. 
She wants a relationship, so she avoids hookups. Tough luck, because guys want to test drive the vehicle before they buy it. Good luck finding a guy who will stay interested after you withhold sex for more than three dates. 
So she gives in and hooks up. Too bad, some of the guys got what they wanted and don't pursue a relationship, now her "number" is too high to be desirable as a wife. Her fault.

So what is the correct path, according to your logic, to "playing her cards and finding a husband"? Having your parents introduce you to a suitor at church? Is that the only way?[/quote]

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