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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Speaking honestly here as an attractive woman, a former model. It IS more than looks.

Looks may be the first thing that gets attention, yes, but only up to a point.

I am an attractive woman. I have a nice face and a great figure. But I'm eccentric and often a bitch, being perfectly honest here. I've had zero trouble getting first and sometimes second dates, but a lot of trouble getting a guy to stick around. I'm the woman that men want to sleep with or even cheat on their significant others with, but I'm not the one they want as a long term girlfriend or wife. When I let on that I'm interested in something more than sex, the guy backs away every time.

And I know full well what I need to work on and why this happens, why I attract @rseholes or why nice guys won't stay with me. I'm too self centered. I'm too weirdly into my own things. I talk too much. I'm high-strung and annoying. I'm not a "chill girl" who is easygoing and "cool with whatever."

At the end of the day, I am skinny and attractive, and have no long term relationships to speak of.

The girls next door, who dress casually, wear less makeup, might have a few flaws according to beauty conventions, may carry a few extra pounds - they have boyfriends, fiances, and husbands.

Just the truth.[/quote]

You have a self esteem problem and unfortunately, there are equal numbers on both sides. And I like to add, there are just as many of those "nice chill girls" that end up divorced or in bad marriages in the end.

Be you. [/quote]

+1.  I’m a chill girl. Not typical beauty, but good looking in my own way.  Have been in two very long term relationships (5+ years) where guys were eager to marry (more eager than I).  I had to end both of them because, at the end of the day, both guys were “good guys” on the surface but abusive underneath.  My main lesson learned is to be a lot less chill and more demanding in a relationship and quicker to judge whether a person is a good match for ME.

You be you.[/quote]

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