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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Small kitchen, lots of guest rooms, old American cars with some dirt on them. Persian rugs obtained by an older relative whist traveling in Iraq or Yemen in the early 1900s. Vacations include things like helicopter trips to hunt moose or elk, or expeditions on camel with Bedouins. Art includes antiquities, framed handwritten poems signed by [b]Maya Angelou[/b], and mounted heads of animals killed while hunting.[/quote] You mean, [b]Doctor[/b] Maya Angelou? -Opfra[/quote] The pp provides a subtle class signal. The rich, and even the UMC, are not impressed that she's a doctor. They are impressed that she's Maya Angelou. [/quote] It's less about being impressed and more about showing respect. I read it more as a subtle race signal. I grew up around white people who would refer to Martin Luther King Jr., Maya Angelou, etc. Now I work among black people who always refer to Dr. King, Dr. Maya Angelou, etc. You can bet I use the titles people have earned now. [/quote] Where I work, a little under half of my colleagues have doctorates. No one refers to anyone as doctor unless they are being introduced as a panelist at a conference or something similar. We had one guy that referred to himself as doctor. His doctorate was from the least prestigious school compared to everyone else, and the fact that he insisted on being called doctor marked him as being "less than" class-wise. So, pp, it's your view fhat calling people doctor is a respect issue, and you make the somewhat absurd claim that not doing so is also racist, but I would argue that no one calls Albert Einstein "Dr Albert Einstein" nor do we refer to Henry Kissinger as "Dr Henry Kissinger". Like them, both MLK and Angelou need no honorific introduction to command respect. [/quote]
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