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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once a week was great for me, 1 kid, 41 yrs. That's enough time for my energy to build up and have multiple orgasms. However DH being an emotionally/borderline physically abusive jerk destroyed my ability to have sex with him. [/quote]
If he's not your ex husband, it can only mean you have an an open marriage. Because those are your only options.[/quote]

:roll: yay, the MRA is here to remind us that no matter how abusive a man is, if you don’t put out, the marriage IS OPEN.

I also have an emotionally abusive husband. Whatever. If someone else wants to put up with his crap and save me the hassle of getting him off, that’s fine with me. Makes my life easier. Problem is he’s suck a jerk no other woman is interested. [/quote]
Totally wrong. I am absolutely NOT telling you to put out. If you have an emotionally abusive jerk husband, I definitely would not expect you to have sex with him. Rather, you should divorce him. Why would you stay married to an abusive jerk?

But... but... if you DON'T divorce him, well then I am sorry but you are not entitled to his exclusivity.
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STFU
I don’t WANT his exclusivity. I’ve told my DH to go ahead and get it elsewhere because cheating wouldn’t be anywhere near the top of the list of terrible things he’s done to me.

I don’t understand you men who put your monogamy up on a pedestal and treat it like it’s some great prize. I don’t want your penis and don’t care where you stick it. Go ahead and open the marriage, god knows I’d also love to get some strange. [/quote]
It sounds like we are in perfect agreement so why did you respond with an eyeroll instead of just a +1?[/quote]

Because when someone says their husband is abusive, the first thing to pop into your mind shouldn’t be “well he’s just gonna go get action elsewhere!” [/quote]

No. Read it again. The first thing in my mind is “why isn’t he your EX husband”.

So he’s so horible that you don’t want sex, but not so horrible that you would divorce?

That’s your decision. But you don’t also get to control his sexual fidelity.[/quote][/quote]

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