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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you explain this volunteer thing a little bit more. You are moving to a new town, and chose a school that requires 100 hours of volunteer time?

If you will be staying home, why does it matter that the boss agreed?

I'm not trying to be snarky, just trying to unravel the question a little.

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The boss basically told me to quit. I can't get a full days work in with drop-off/pick-up and this volunteer work. I can't handle the travel the job requires.

I did not choose the school. DH wanted DD to attend a Catholic school and there is only one in the area.[/quote]

Ok. So you have a couple of issues, but one is that you need to tell your husband that your career matters, too. Not only does it matter because it is good for your mental health, it matters because you are person whose happiness and fulfillment is important.

So, either your husband can agree to throw money at this problem (pay someone to do drop-off and pick-up) or he can agree to public school. But one way or another, your needs and desires should not be subjugated to his in perpetuity. [/quote]

I make less than half of what he does. It doesn't make sense to rock boat and insist my career matters.

Besides, it's too late.[/quote]

If your husband is in a command position. He is probably a colonel and doesn't make much money.  If you make half of what he does, it is time for you to retool and learn new skills while you are being an involuntary SAHM.   My friend is a nurse practitioner and burned out on it. She moved with her husband to a small town and is taking a two year on line course in medical writing from a well regarded school and program.  In two years, she will have a better career that allows her to work anywhere.

When yiu are settled, look into some programs to update your skills so that you are better prepared for your next move.   I moved 27 times in my husband's career and worked at least part time from even the most remote places and when I home schooled our children.

This new challenge will also help your mental health.

All good wishes.  [/quote]

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