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[quote=Anonymous]This happened several years ago but honestly, for the amount of hurt it caused, I wish I had behaved differently. There was a lot of damage to people on the periphery and my actions created a toxic environment that curdled over time. A couple years ago I sought advice on a different relationship forum on how to navigate all this turmoil during the funeral of a close friend. I'll copy and paste some of what I wrote in that post: I went to check my email on our shared computer and discovered it was already logged into an account my (now ex) wife had made to correspond with her affair partner. When I realized who this other person was, a lot of things made sense in hindsight about how my wife had been acting the past several months. The top email included the hotel, room number, and time they were set to meet. I picked up her elderly (and very traditional) parents and told them I had a surprise. I took them up to the hotel and found the room. I pretended to be room service when I knocked and my wife answered in a state of undress. Her parents were really confused and she was extremely embarrassed, then immediately angry. I said something like "have a nice life" and left. From what I heard, my wife had to rely on her affair partner to drive her parents home since my wife didn't have her own car at the hotel. She thrives on her parent's opinion of her. She always felt growing up that she never measured up to their standards, so their approval was very important to her. Marriage is a big value to them, and she got caught red handed cheating. From what I understand, she is still very much on bad terms with her father as a result.[/quote]
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