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[quote=Anonymous]Need to address this in a calm, reasoning manor and you need to do it now. Make a time in the next week when you both will be free from external stressors. Sit down and explain to him that you think it's important to discuss this issue. That, while you understand that it is a topic that you both feel passionately about, it's importantnthat this discussion stay calm and rational. If either of you get heated, suggest a breath or even a little break.
Prior to this sitdown, you need to have a sitdown with yourself. You need to consider how strongly you feel about your position, why it's important and what compromises you might be able to live with. Would you be willing to work part-time? Find a job that allowed you to work from school? Go part-time until the kids started school? Is the type of work you do important? Would he agree to any of those? How about a temporary retirement until the children start school? Once you decide what you can live with and what compromises you are willing to discuss, prepare to discuss why you feel this way. Be willing to listen to what he says and why (sounds like you mostly have) and see if you can come to a mutually acceptable solution.[/quote]

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