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[quote=Anonymous]You said yourself that you are opposite ends of a spectrum. It’s okay to feel pangs of jealousy as long as you keep perspective and not let that jealousy get you to make comparisons. You are inherently not alike. An apple cannot be an orange ever. The best thing you can do is face whatever feelings in yourself that the jealousy is bringing up. THOSE are what is holding you back, not her. If her lifestyle shows you that you have an unreasonable temper, level of cleanliness, disregard for something, whatever - and that is bothering you, then work on making changes to benefit your own life. It’s okay if she is different. Different isn't necessarily better unless you recognize it as such and WANT to be different. Your kids are benefiting in the long run from having both of you.[/quote]
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