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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people. [/quote]

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college. [/quote]

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this)  or very shy.[/quote]

:roll: [/quote]

Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.[/quote]

NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around. [/quote]

Agreed.  Beautiful women don't sleep around, in my experience [/quote]

Ha! The idea that beautiful women are generally undamaged is the biggest crock of shit I've heard in a long time. [/quote]
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NP. Disagree. I actually think that a self-confident, self-assured beautiful woman don't sleep around. [/b]At least within AA circles. I am one of them, and have a flock of beautiful girlfriends, 3 of which were virgins who married and have only been with one. I recognize this is rare. But I also don't think that sleeping around = damaged goods. It's a very personal choice that some people do for different reasons. If there is damage in a woman that hasn't been repaired, it is usually there before the high count of partners...[/quote]

What are AA circles?
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I think that this is an over generalization. I am an attractive AA woman. I was very self-assured and fit in college when  I racked  up a large number of sexual partners. Many of my friends, who are AA, did the same.  We were having fun. Nothing more, nothing less.  My sexual adventures were not at all tied to my self worth or a need. [/quote]

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